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The Challenge Week 1- Fix Your Boudoir

January 11, 2009

  Ladies, I am so excited I can hardly stand it! There are over 80 of you signed up to participate in The Challenge. Oh my goodness, our hubbies are going to start taking over the world!! And as you can see, I have a code for the button over in my sidebar so I would love it you continue spreading the word. Let’s top 100. Are ya ready? Let’s kick off week 1 shall we?

Our bedrooms should be a haven. I find, it’s pretty hard to get in the mood with piles of dirty laundry waiting to be folded staring you down. So, your first assignment is to turn your bedroom into a romantic retreat.

  1. Lose the TV: I once watched an Oprah (though not in my bedroom) where a woman proudly admitted that she watched Oprah while having sex with her husband. That’s about the worst thing you can do with a TV in the bedroom, but frankly I can’t think of many better reasons for it. I love TV as much as the next gal, probably more than the next girl, but it is a passion killer in the bedroom. One study showed that couples who have TVs in the bedroom have sex half as often as those who don’t. So lose the TV and focus on each other while in bed. No excuses on this one ladies, I have heard them all and I ain’t buyin’ it.
  2. Tone down pictures of the kids: I can’t think of anything that kills the mood faster than glancing over at pictures of my kids. Don’t get me wrong, I think my kids are the cutest things since sliced bread, but I keep their pictures up in other parts of the house. If you really want pics of the kids in your room, just avoid putting them right next to the bed.
  3. Get rid of the clutter: Try and keep your room picked up. If I see messes waiting to be cleaned up, I have a hard time focusing on the task at hand. If you really want to be creative, tell the hubby you can’t focus on the task at hand with the room so messy. You will be amazed at how quickly the room stays clean. Of course, I would NEVER encourage manipulation…
  4. Get romantic lighting: No one wants to see themselves naked under harsh fluorescent lighting (let’s face it most of us don’t want to see ourselves naked at all). Install dimmer switches or light bulbs that can be set on different light settings. Better yet, get some yummy smelling candles and create an even more romantic mood.
  5. Try some mood music: Get a CD player and put on some music that puts you in the mood. I won’t even give suggestions cause one persons Enya is another persons Van Morrison. Use whatever works for you.

There you go. I’m going easy on you the first week. You’re not even required to have sex. Although you will get extra credit if you do :) So what do you think? Are you in?

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Jill is the author of The Diaper Diaries. She has been changing diapers for 6+ years as a stay at home mom of three children. She also has a devoted husband who graciously puts up with this little internet hobby. They all probably wishes she would exercise a bit more discretion as she shares their life's ups, downs and in-betweens with anyone willing to read it. You can (almost always) find her on Twitter @DiaperDiaries.

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  1. EstherNo Gravatar says:

    Great points. I’d add having the baby monitor on. You can’t get it on with one ear trying to hear if the baby is squawking in her crib!
    And Van Morrison? Yes, please.

    Esthers last blog post..This Week’s Top Posts

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    January 11th, 2009 at 10:23 pm

  2. JanetNo Gravatar says:

    Great ideas… I didn’t think about the pictures of the kid. I LOVE the idea of telling my hubs I can”t “focus” with the mess. This is going to be fun :)

    Janets last blog post..Subscribe to Comments

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    January 11th, 2009 at 10:31 pm

  3. DiamonddustNo Gravatar says:

    I have had “get the bedroom de-cluttered” on my list for months! I think I may get the help I was promised by my hubby this time! This is going to be great fun.

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    January 11th, 2009 at 10:40 pm

  4. he & me + 3No Gravatar says:

    I will get rid of the kids pictures tomorrow & move them to another room. I never thought of that. I could do with out the TV, but hubby would never go for that. So…what to do?

    he & me + 3s last blog post..At The Tone The Time Will Be…

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    January 11th, 2009 at 10:53 pm

  5. MariaNo Gravatar says:

    Yes, Ma’am! :) Done and done!

    Marias last blog post..The Picture of Health and Wellness, We are.

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    January 11th, 2009 at 11:08 pm

  6. RachelNo Gravatar says:

    We don’t have any pics of our little girl in our room, and I’ve always felt kind of bad about it. Now I guess it’s not too bad!

    Rachels last blog post..Carrying the Body

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    January 12th, 2009 at 12:37 am

  7. Playful ProfessionalNo Gravatar says:

    Okay this will be my goal for week one- declutter the bedroom. I’ve got everything else on that list covered but the room being cluttered is a big oops for me. Oh well.

    Playful Professionals last blog post..If You Tie Your Shoes with Bunny Ears, You Need to Read this Post

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    January 12th, 2009 at 1:14 am

  8. KristenNo Gravatar says:

    Okay, I just commented on this post but your older one of it a few seconds ago. I don’t even know how I found that one!! LOL.

    Anyway, again, we are big on the No TV rule. As for the music, I love that suggestion and am probably going to work that in tonight. ; )

    This challenge is lots of fun!

    Kristens last blog post..Starting tomorrow you can find me…

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    January 12th, 2009 at 3:30 am

  9. jenNo Gravatar says:

    we already keep the 1st and 2nd out of the bedroom! just need to work on the last 3! 3 will be the hardest, but this may have just have given me all the motivation i need! thanks :)

    jens last blog post..blog sharing, a new game, a recipe and a give-away!

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    January 12th, 2009 at 7:29 am

  10. ChristinNo Gravatar says:

    Great ideas! A couple I never thought of…like pics of the kids. I should replace them with pics of me and hubby together. :) Also, I agree about the baby monitor. Ohhh that is a killer and I have one in my room, even though the baby is two steps across the hall. If she really needs me, she’ll let me know!
    Great challenge! I look forward to sprucing it up this week!

    Christins last blog post..J.O.Y. is Mine in 2009

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    January 12th, 2009 at 9:59 am

  11. MaliaNo Gravatar says:

    Wow, what a coincidence (or not, depending on how you view such things). My January project is to restore our bedroom to it’s previous boudoir state. A couple years ago, we painted the bedroom, got new furniture and made a room for us, a haven that was uncluttered and nice to be in. Well…over the past several months the state of affairs in the boudoir have significantly declined, so I decided to start the year off right and get it back in shape!

    I know I’m able to um, concentrate better, when I’m not distracted by clutter on the bedside table and clothes on the floor! ;)

    Malias last blog post..Vegetarian Chili: Mouthwatering Monday

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    January 12th, 2009 at 10:10 am

  12. GinnyNo Gravatar says:

    If you can’t get the TV out of the room, how about establishing a no TV time? Agree that after a certain time the TV will be turned off and not come back on until the sun comes up. Our problem right now is the baby, who still refuses to spend the entire night in her own bed, although we are working on it and most nights she starts in her own bed giving us a few hours of alone time. Gotta start somewhere!

    Ginnys last blog post..New Year, New Me!

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    January 12th, 2009 at 10:11 am

  13. Sarah @ Short StopNo Gravatar says:

    Candles. Check.
    Music. Check.

    Crap. Gotta declutter our room. No pics of kids. Or Grandma. Or any other figures that might make for a scary mid-session glance over. So we’re good there.

    Really good thoughts here.

    Sarah @ Short Stops last blog post..Jack: Christmas 2008

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    January 12th, 2009 at 10:11 am

  14. BrookeNo Gravatar says:

    all of that is already done except the clutter part. and i’m sure he left his church pants laying on the floor in there last night. i’ll take care of it tonight :)

    Brookes last blog post..Conviction

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    January 12th, 2009 at 10:44 am

  15. Heather HNo Gravatar says:

    Okay, okay. So this means I probably need to move the 2-month old out of the bedroom, too? I’m having a hard time letting go – even though she’d only be moving a few feet down the hall…Guess I need to suck it up, though, huh? :) K – so my challenge is to de-clutter my bedroom by transferring the babe to her own room. Luckily, I have a week to work up to it…

    Heather Hs last blog post..Zora Tells a Story

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    January 12th, 2009 at 11:51 am

  16. Erin GNo Gravatar says:

    this might be TMI… but what’s a post on sex without TMI? I went to world market and got some incense. it smells nice and gives a sense of the faraway (we have really good vacation sex, trying to play that up at home you know)… unlike candles which we burn in our kitchen to get rid of the grease smell (not so much sexy). I plan to light out nice-smelling incense this week.

    ugh, I guess that means I need to clean our room first, and put away the laundry.

    Erin Gs last blog post..Reason #1087 Why I Need a Daughter

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    January 12th, 2009 at 1:13 pm

  17. KathrynNo Gravatar says:

    Oh, man … you’ve been spying on me! We emptied a room that has termite damage so we could fix it. Well, at least that was the plan. 6 months later the extra furniture is still cluttering up our bedroom. Your post is a terrific reminder to make the master bedroom a place for comfort and coming together as a couple.

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    January 12th, 2009 at 1:23 pm

  18. DawnNo Gravatar says:

    Okay…I’m in a dilemma. My husband and I are in the process of building a house in another state. (Yea!) BUT…our bedroom is full of packing boxes and it is chaos! We have a small apt. in Ohio, the state we are moving to for when we have to be up there until the house is done. It is like a bachelor’s pad to say the least. This is just the way it is until we actually move. Maybe I should just have sex with blinders on???? ha!

    Dawns last blog post..What’s Your Alarm Clock Personality?

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    January 12th, 2009 at 3:01 pm

  19. AmyNo Gravatar says:

    I think this is great so far! I have some clutter to take care of, and a picture of my girls that needs to move. Although their little outfits match the decor so nicely….Ok, ok, I’ll let it go.

    Amys last blog post..On the Curing Rack: Black Raspberry Creme

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    January 12th, 2009 at 3:18 pm

  20. KatieNo Gravatar says:

    Woot! 2 weekends ago Hubby and I DEEP cleaned our bedroom and now we have a bet going. Whoever leaves clothes (dirty or clean) on the floor first, has to be the others “slave” (backrub, initiating, etc). Haha! I want a backrub so bad, I keep hoping he’ll leave something on the floor, but he doesn’t!

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    January 12th, 2009 at 3:30 pm

  21. KatieNo Gravatar says:

    And we don’t have a TV in our room! yay!

    Katies last blog post..Menu Planning Monday!

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    January 12th, 2009 at 3:31 pm

  22. DebbieNo Gravatar says:

    Great ideas – getting the clutter and the kids’ pics out is a good suggestion! And some aromatherapy / lighting will be a nice touch, too!

    Debbies last blog post..Monday Musings

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    January 12th, 2009 at 4:34 pm

  23. AllieNo Gravatar says:

    Sign me up! I have 4 baskets of laundry to put away, will get done ASAP!!

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    January 12th, 2009 at 4:35 pm

  24. Andrea@Under Grace & Over CoffeeNo Gravatar says:

    I am so totally using the clutter card! For the most part our room is pretty tidy, but my sweetie has a corner that drives me crazy!!

    Awesome tips – can’t wait for next week!

    Andrea@Under Grace & Over Coffees last blog post..Because I don’t want to forget

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    January 12th, 2009 at 4:39 pm

  25. KristinNo Gravatar says:

    I’m in!! No pic’s of kids in room,small lamps in place and surround sound for ‘mood’ music.

    Now, I just need to get the picture of ‘Christ’ out! Don’t get me wrong, I love Christ but the rather large pic of Him, by Greg Olsen, in my room might be making me feel somewhat ‘NOT IN THE MOOD!!’

    Until next week…

    Kristins last blog post..My Workspace!! In the Morning!!

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    January 12th, 2009 at 4:54 pm

  26. Megan (FriedOkra)No Gravatar says:

    OHMYGRANNY. I can’t wait to see what comes next!

    Megan (FriedOkra)s last blog post..Because In Oh So Many Ways It’s Losing Relevance As I Type

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    January 12th, 2009 at 6:16 pm

  27. We are THAT familyNo Gravatar says:

    We redid our bedroom this time last year. It’s a really grown up room. Except as I’m typing this, I did notice a basket of toys. I will be removing those. Thankyouverymuch.

    Also, I’m issuing my own little challenge tomorrow and I’m linking to yours!

    We are THAT familys last blog post..Another Patent in the Making

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    January 12th, 2009 at 6:16 pm

  28. VickiNo Gravatar says:

    I have now put that on to do list….cleaning the bedroom that is! ;)

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    January 12th, 2009 at 6:22 pm

  29. beeNo Gravatar
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    Ummm… there’s a giant crib sitting in our room. And, at night, there’s a giant baby in that crib. Uh-oh! Do I fail already? I can move her out once we, you know, buy a bigger house! :-)

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    January 12th, 2009 at 6:25 pm

  30. CourtneyNo Gravatar says:

    We have a TV in the bedroom but it is never used. No pictures either. Just laundry that I’ve been too lazy to put away. Guess I’ll get that done tonight.

    Courtneys last blog post..The Perfect Match by Susan May Warren

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    January 12th, 2009 at 7:06 pm

  31. Michelle at ScribbitNo Gravatar says:

    My husband will thank you–especially if that whole mood thing works :)

    Michelle at Scribbits last blog post..Sesame Cheese Crescents

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    January 12th, 2009 at 7:24 pm

  32. Beth@Not a Bow in SightNo Gravatar says:

    The TV went a few months ago- and it was really painless. Of course, now the computer is in there…

    No pictures of my parents (or his)- check!

    Beth@Not a Bow in Sights last blog post..And Then We Had Kids…

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    January 12th, 2009 at 8:56 pm

  33. RebeccaNo Gravatar says:

    Uh, you totally got me on this one. I spent the day cleaning and de-cluttering. I can’t wait to see what you’ve got in store for us next week and the ones that follow.

    TV? Gone.
    Clutter? Gone.
    Candles? Lit.
    Playlist? Made.

    Extra Credit? Absolutely! :)

    Thanks for doing this challenge, I can already tell that it’s going to be good!

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    January 12th, 2009 at 9:01 pm

  34. LeslieNo Gravatar says:

    For those of you who have a baby in the bedroom…we learned how to be pretty creative during those years – a nest of blankets on the living room floor, the couch, you get the picture. A little adventure never hurt anyone!

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    January 12th, 2009 at 9:39 pm

  35. StephanieNo Gravatar says:

    I’m in! I blogged about it!

    http://teachinauntie.blogspot.com/2009/01/challenge-week-1.html

    Way to go Rebecca!

    Stephanies last blog post..Am I a prude?

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    January 12th, 2009 at 10:21 pm

  36. Courtney from Mommie BlogsNo Gravatar says:

    totally in! It will be hard as we are knee deep in redecorating and remodeling the second and third floors. But its needed and I will be tackling it this week!

    Courtney from Mommie Blogss last blog post..double l is sick, mommie is beat and can’t miss out on the delurking totally…

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    January 12th, 2009 at 11:05 pm

  37. AlissaNo Gravatar says:

    Yes!- I just did a major clean out of the bedroom this weekend and it’s so much more relaxing now. All the junk by the bed was a stressor. Now I need to deal with the really funky curtains, maybe put a candle in the bedroom too. Dh would like that/

    Alissas last blog post..Preschooler Cookin’

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    January 13th, 2009 at 1:50 am

  38. Mrs. QNo Gravatar says:

    Okay, I don’t have any pics of the kids in our bedroom or any toys. However, I do have to get our seventeen month old daughter out of the room…sigh…easier said than done.

    **For those of you ladies who deal with the-baby-in-the-room dilemma, try the living room :) or a spare bedroom, or the minivan–if you have a garage of course, privacy is paramount– (haven’t done that one YET…hmmm…might be a fun way to spice it up though!) The point is to work with what you have and WORK IT! :) **

    Clutter is minimal and usually consists of laundry…which drives my husband insane…so I try to keep it picked up.

    For mood lighting, there is no cheaper way to go than Dollar Store tea lights!

    There is no CD player in our bedroom, so we are at the mercy of what is on the radio….need to put “stereo for bedroom” at the top of our “to-be-bought” list!

    However, I am working on creating a more romantic decorating atmosphere conducive to lovemaking in our bedroom. It is so hard when you have such a limited budget and extravagant dreams! Guess I am going to have to get creative :)

    The TV got kicked out of our home almost a year ago. We decided that it was taking over our family time and our couple time. Out it went and we don’t miss it a bit!

    I got my extra credit done last night *grin*

    Thanks for such a great challenge!

    Mrs. Qs last blog post..Everyday Blessings

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    January 13th, 2009 at 3:56 am

  39. Mrs. QNo Gravatar says:

    Wow, sorry I didn’t realize I had left such a verbose comment!

    Just wanted to pop back in and say I linked to your blog.

    Mrs. Qs last blog post..Everyday Blessings

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    January 13th, 2009 at 4:40 am

  40. Jenny 867-5309No Gravatar
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    Great tips! Unfortunately, when we clean the house, our room always gets the “throw backs”. Piles of papers, etc gets thrown back to our room. It drives me nuts. Moving “de-clutter bedroom” to the top of my to-do list.

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    January 13th, 2009 at 8:43 am

  41. Beth/Mom2TwoVikingsNo Gravatar says:

    Count me in! Got the list for this week and put the button up at my bloggy home!

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    January 13th, 2009 at 9:18 am

  42. JennNo Gravatar says:

    Well, I can’t get rid of the TV, my husband wouldn’t go for that. I could do without it. However, we live in a very rural area and are having DTV difficulties so that may be solved for me in another month!!

    Jenns last blog post..How Do You View Prayer?

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    January 13th, 2009 at 10:07 am

  43. RobinNo Gravatar says:

    I’m in! I’m super excited about this challenge too! So far I’m ok…have some things to work on in the bedroom but a few months ago I redecorated, took out all photos of anyone but hubby and I, put out some new photos of us, and no tv. BUT my room is a mess! I need some organizational tips/help for this! I simply am not good at always putting away clean clothes, keeping things picked up, etc….HELP! So…I’ll work on cleaning/decluttering and look into good lighting (I think that is a FABULOUS idea!)
    :0)
    ~robin

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    January 13th, 2009 at 1:14 pm

  44. RhondaNo Gravatar says:

    Yeah, another incentive to stop throwing all the ‘junk’ in the bedroom!! Ready to clean it up and make it a haven to escape and enjoy! I like the ’slave’ idea mentioned above…someone in our bedroom has a problem with clothes on the ….gasp…FLOOR! Hmmm…maybe it’s more than one person!?

    Rhondas last blog post..The Many Faces of Caden Rylee

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    January 13th, 2009 at 4:09 pm

  45. debbieNo Gravatar says:

    How many weeks do I get to accomplish all this? Just getting rid of the clutter may take weeks!

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    January 13th, 2009 at 4:25 pm

  46. BethanyNo Gravatar says:

    count me in. I need to de-clutter and do something about the TV. DH bought a new TV for our room last year, don’t think I can get rid of it. I like the idea of turning it off at a certain time each night.

    Bethanys last blog post..Disney World and 100th post

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    January 13th, 2009 at 4:27 pm

  47. allisonNo Gravatar says:

    Hey! I’m in this sounds great!!

    allisons last blog post..I’m up for the Challenge

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    January 13th, 2009 at 5:24 pm

  48. JenNo Gravatar says:

    I am guessing that getting the four-year-old out of our bed would also be an important step. Hmmmm?

    Jens last blog post..Speaking of… speech

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    January 13th, 2009 at 5:24 pm

  49. HeatherNo Gravatar says:

    Getting rid of the TV is going to be really difficult, lol!

    Heathers last blog post..Website for Sale: Crafty Mom Blog

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    January 13th, 2009 at 5:56 pm

  50. Jennifer ValerieNo Gravatar says:

    1. Check – no tv
    2. No pics of kids but I need to remove pic of my dad
    3. Clutter – almost there – I need to move the box of kids too small clothes
    4. Lighting – I will get some tea lights next time I get into town. In the meantime I will use the candles we have now.
    5. No cd player but the laptop is a good way to get the music going.

    Thanks for the challenge. I blogged about it on two of my blogs – http://www.jennifervalerie.blogspot.com and http://www.helpmeetministries.blogspot.com and put buttons up as well.

    Jennifer Valeries last blog post..I hoped to…

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    January 13th, 2009 at 7:26 pm

  51. PaigeNo Gravatar says:

    I don’t have pictures of my kids in there.
    We already have dimmers for the lights, as well as music that can be played in there.

    Clutter–well, I’m working on that.

    Tv. Keeping it. I’m sorry. I know what they say about a tv in the bedroom, but I LIKE having it there. I’ll turn it off when we get down to business, but really, how would I get any of that clutter put away or the laundry folded during the day if I didn’t have a tv?

    And do I get bonus points if we had sex last night?

    Paiges last blog post..Close? Maybe not.

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    January 13th, 2009 at 9:45 pm

  52. NancyNo Gravatar says:

    Clutter – check
    Candles – check
    No pictures – check

    Now for the extra credit….:)

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    January 13th, 2009 at 10:39 pm

  53. DeannaNo Gravatar says:

    Well, It’s Tuesday…. but better late than never right?

    I added your button to my blog bar.

    Your’re a brave married chic!! and you are very right… about the gift of sexual intimacy between a husband and wife!

    hope to browse your blog at a later time, to get to ‘know’ beyond the 1st Cor 7:5 challenge :O)

    ~Deanna :O)… off to make a post about the challenge at my blog!

    Deannas last blog post..Free give-away!

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    January 13th, 2009 at 10:47 pm

  54. MelissaNo Gravatar says:

    I love these ideas. We have a TV but we use it only for the music channels. I love coffehouse on sirius radio TV. It really sets the MOOD.
    I added your button to my sidebar

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    January 13th, 2009 at 11:19 pm

  55. Melissa @ Heart PrintsNo Gravatar says:

    This sounds like a great start! Thanks so much!

    Melissa @ Heart Printss last blog post..The Simple Woman’s Daybook

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    January 14th, 2009 at 12:46 am

  56. CassandraNo Gravatar says:

    I can thankfully say that I am an honor roll student for this challenge, since the beginning of our marriage we have had all of the above mentioned things in our bedroom.

    A suggestion that my husband had for our marriage was that we fight anywhere in our home except in our bedroom, he never wanted to associate any of those feelings to our intimate connection.

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    January 14th, 2009 at 1:17 am

  57. ruth a. stilesNo Gravatar says:

    hubby and I only had a tv in our room for like 6 months and we hardly ever used it….now the kids have it in their toy room….also…We switched bedrooms with the boys so we have less room…room for bed, 2 night tables, and a dresser…It is completely organized and easy to keep clean. There are a few pics on the wall b/c the boys were in there but I plan on taking them down today. I have a big problem with the ceiling light-aka spotlight-turned on….I have tons of candles so why don’t I use them I ask myself? I need to find them….
    Music…we are not much of a romantic music couple….what? turn the radio on and in the middle of sex song ends and a commercial comes one? HAHAHA I don’t think so!
    Anyways…I look forward to next week!

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    January 14th, 2009 at 8:26 am

  58. ShannonNo Gravatar says:

    I am still trying to sort out what it left of my bedroom after a the Christmas crafting tornado that came through but I think it is time it was a bedroom again.

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    January 14th, 2009 at 9:50 am

  59. the characterNo Gravatar says:

    well, I guess I better get started!!! Thanks!!

    the characters last blog post..Say it again and again and again

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    January 14th, 2009 at 11:47 am

  60. ShumpyNo Gravatar says:

    I’m in =)

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    January 14th, 2009 at 12:09 pm

  61. VeronicaNo Gravatar says:

    I took the TV out of the bedroom and put it in the loft (after rearranging all the furniture of course). Now I just need to work on the clutter. That could take awhile…

    Veronicas last blog post..Distractions..

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    January 14th, 2009 at 1:55 pm

  62. BetsyNo Gravatar says:

    We also have a framed wedding invitation (our own) right by the bed–nice little reminder….

    Betsys last blog post..Savoring a Cup of Tea: Prayer for the 1st Monday

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    January 14th, 2009 at 4:26 pm

  63. BridgetteNo Gravatar says:

    I think eliminating kid pictures is a must. Our bedroom is full of pictures of the two of us, but none of our 18 month old son. The rest of the house, on the other hand, is another story!

    Bridgettes last blog post..The Average Millionaire

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    January 14th, 2009 at 7:13 pm

  64. LisaNo Gravatar says:

    hmmm…clutter still there, tv still there, baby still there, hubby…not there. we haven’t shared a bedroom in a long while. Our youngest is going to be one in 15 days and I can count on my fingers how many times we’ve ‘enjoyed’ each other since he was born…on one hand!

    Lisas last blog post..Who’s kid is this!?!?!?!?

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    January 15th, 2009 at 12:57 am

  65. DonnaNo Gravatar says:

    I think my husband will appreciate the decluttering almost as much as…nah!

    Donnas last blog post..Saved

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    January 15th, 2009 at 5:01 am

  66. PattiNo Gravatar says:

    Bedroom doubles as the storage room but is looking better than it has in years. Never had a TV in here, no problem with the kid pics. Candles we’ve done for years. Music? Now, there’s an idea!

    Pattis last blog post..Kitchen Waterfall

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    January 15th, 2009 at 11:43 am

  67. MinnesotamomNo Gravatar says:

    Yup! I’ve actually been asking Husband to make more of an effort in the mood music and lighting area…but he often forgets.

    Minnesotamoms last blog post..My Best Craft EVER

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    January 15th, 2009 at 9:14 pm

  68. WendiNo Gravatar says:

    Just found your blog today and wow! Love this challenge! You are right on. So glad some one was willing to go there. :)

    Wendis last blog post..Payin’ it forward

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    January 16th, 2009 at 11:18 am

  69. RebeccaNo Gravatar says:

    I have to say that this first step sounds so simple, but so far has been amazing! We’ve had a wonderful week :) , and I can’t wait to read the new post on Monday.

    Don’t skip this step or do it half-way, it’s really important.

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    January 16th, 2009 at 11:40 am

  70. LynnetNo Gravatar says:

    I’m a little late in getting started as I just found your site. We’ve been married for 18.5 years, and after watching Fireproof, this is just what I needed! I’m looking around my bedroom and am shaking my head. This place is a mess! I’d love to knock his socks off when he comes home tonight to a really clean bedroom! Thanks for push in the right direction!

    Lynnets last blog post..The blessing of Only

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    January 16th, 2009 at 2:08 pm

  71. JoannNo Gravatar says:

    I’m joining in on the challenge!

    I’m in. I blogged about it as well.

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    January 16th, 2009 at 3:15 pm

  72. SakuraNo Gravatar says:

    DH says “we don’t watch it that much” but he does.. and doesn’t want it out of the bedroom.. as far as a mess goes.. well my cloth diaper changing station is in my room… and there is no where else in the house for it… lol. Doesn’t a diaper put you in the mood? No pics up anywhere in our house…..

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    January 16th, 2009 at 4:39 pm

  73. Jenn in MoNo Gravatar says:

    Clutter is my big falling. Our bedroom is the junk drawer of my life. But the Song of Solomon does refer to the setting so significantly. sigh. off to work on it.

    Jenn in Mos last blog post..Books

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    January 16th, 2009 at 7:58 pm

  74. Mom of OneNo Gravatar says:

    Extra Points Please. LOL

    Mom of Ones last blog post..Helping other Mothers and Being Helped myself in the process.

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    January 16th, 2009 at 11:59 pm

  75. BrieNo Gravatar says:

    I want in!! I’m a little late, but soo excited!

    Bries last blog post..The Weather Outside is Frightful…

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    January 17th, 2009 at 12:59 pm

  76. HeatherNo Gravatar says:

    I am totally in for this. We need a little romance back in our life.
    I have no pics or clutter, but i do have a tv. We don’t watch it at night, but it has to stay (it’s there for an extra so the 3 yo can watch inthere while we are in the living room).
    I would really love to redo the room though, change it up a little. So maybe this will get me going on it.

    Heathers last blog post..Valentine’s Day ideas

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    January 18th, 2009 at 1:59 pm

  77. Rena GuntherNo Gravatar says:

    I’m catching up on my “homework” since I’m a bit late.

    I think it’s awesome that you’re doing this!

    Rena Gunthers last blog post..The Daily Mercies

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    January 18th, 2009 at 6:03 pm

  78. DeborahNo Gravatar says:

    No kids yet…so, no pictures up yet, and no interruptions – - – HUZZAH! I have candles…just need some mood music…and maybe a feather boa!

    Deborahs last blog post..What I’m Waking Up To . . .

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    January 20th, 2009 at 4:09 am

  79. AnnNo Gravatar says:

    Ok I just posted about cleaning up the bedroom on my blog. Keeping our room clean is something we struggle with because its not a room people have to see when they come over. We dump clutter in there to get back to later but never get back to it. Now our room has become one of two places in the house clutter goes to die. Husband has been suggesting a dimmer for a while perhaps now is the time ;)

    Anns last blog post..Tackle It Tuesday

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    January 27th, 2009 at 6:01 pm

  80. MissyNo Gravatar says:

    The TV can’t go (DH loves to have it in there) but he only watches it while he reads or can’t sleep, I can do the rest :P IPOD playlist making time!!! :P

    Missys last blog post..Bucket list

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    February 20th, 2009 at 1:38 am

  81. AlyssaNo Gravatar says:

    I had already done most of this. No TV, we’re buying a new chest of drawers soon b/c we’re overflowing clothes and that causes clutter. Will work on the other things too.

    Alyssas last blog post..It Has Only Just Begun

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    February 26th, 2009 at 11:06 pm

  82. NaomiNo Gravatar says:

    just finished this part of the challenge on saturday minus the cd player. still need to add that. i am a firm believer of no pictures of the kids in the bedroom, and no tv either. we haven’t had a tv in our bedroom since we moved into our first home. i love how my bedroom feel now!!!

    Naomis last blog post..twilight on DVD – FINALLY!!!

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    March 23rd, 2009 at 10:42 am

  83. KellyNo Gravatar says:

    Just joining this great idea. Will definately be decluttering the room this week. It has been on my to do list for weeks, just can’t seem to get caught up with the laundry. The laundry will wait until the bedroom is done. Here’s a compromise for the pics. Our room is decorated with beach things. We have pics of the kids but they are siloettes of their backs at the beach, or just of their toes in the water.

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    July 29th, 2009 at 12:08 pm

  84. JaimeNo Gravatar says:

    1. We don’t have a TV in our bedroom.

    2. No pics of the kids in our bedroom.

    3. I am a neat freak! No clutter anywhere in my house!

    4. Got the candles in there already!

    5. This one is hard. My taste in romantic mood music is not my husband’s taste. He isn’t even into music!

    Only one problem… our 9 week old son is in our room! So my “fixing the boudoir” is going to have to be “fixing the living room”! lol
    Jaime´s last blog ..Week 1 – The 1 Corinthians 7:5 Challenge My ComLuv Profile

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    July 31st, 2009 at 9:36 pm

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